Life changing Saturday... (2)
Well, before talking about the event in Pancho's house, I have to say this: WRITERS DON'T GET LAID... for real. When I was in the KOK stand talking to some visitors I remember that they were really interested in what I had to say.... until they found out that I was the writer. As soon as they knew they usually lost interest and immediately asked: "well... and who's the artist?" and went off to talk to them, ask for an autograph or a drawing... BAH!!! One hint for you dumb assess of the world: comics got written by someone... and usually that some one is a writer!!!! So show some respect... it is not like I was a tracer or something.
Anyways... Pancho's house.
Pancho had called me before the "Euforia Festival" 'coz he wanted to hang out with me, so I told him that I'd call him back after the festival. After dropping Mariel off (insert Life Changing Saturday ... (1) here) I headed to Pancho's house, but I didn't call him 'coz I've assumed that he was going to be home.
When I got there his mom greet me and told me that Pancho was having some coffee with Ireri (my ex) and he was coming back anytime, so I decided to wait for him. When he arrived... well Ireri was with him, and she also stayed in his house (nothing wrong with that, he is also her friend). But the weird and the uncomfortable began short after.
I was trying to play it cool, laying some jokes (something that I tend to do when nervous) and just acting natural, as if Ireri was a friend. However after a while, Pancho started going some VERY uncomfortable comments, such as:
1. "Ireri, why don't you have sex with Victor.. he needs it"
(I reacted with laughter... relax Victor, is only a joke)
2. "Victor, what you don't know is that Ireri is still in love with you!"
(I didn't reacted at all... I just froze... from all the jokes this was a little bit out of the hedge)
Lots of jokes and counter jokes were cast, but the environment was getting dense... I felt very sad because at some level I hoped that the friendship with Ireri could work... but apparently it can't, not when those kind of jokes are told and much less when those jokes might carry some truth (as jokes usually do). After a while I just ignored Pancho, and Blanco had already arrived, so the whole "ignore Pancho" was easier, so I tried to talk to Ireri.
I told her that I really wanted to be her friend (silly me) to which she immediately reply: "well, I really don't want to be yours"... Now I had had it... the environment was not only dense, nos it was crushing me down. I felt very bad 'coz of this, not because she told me "I don't"... but because I felt into the exact same idiotic behavior... trust Ireri, trust her enough to open myself againg a little bit and offer her my friendship.
I spent the next twenty minutes ignoring her and trying to forget the embarrassing moment. When I left I just said good bye and drive away. After a couple of minutes I received a call from Ireri... she told me she was sorry and she wanted to talk to me. I told her "whatever, I am bored with you 15-year-old attitude" and "am buzy, called me back".
What should I do if she calls me? Do I give her an opportunity or don't?
Help me please... for real.
Anyways... Pancho's house.
Pancho had called me before the "Euforia Festival" 'coz he wanted to hang out with me, so I told him that I'd call him back after the festival. After dropping Mariel off (insert Life Changing Saturday ... (1) here) I headed to Pancho's house, but I didn't call him 'coz I've assumed that he was going to be home.
When I got there his mom greet me and told me that Pancho was having some coffee with Ireri (my ex) and he was coming back anytime, so I decided to wait for him. When he arrived... well Ireri was with him, and she also stayed in his house (nothing wrong with that, he is also her friend). But the weird and the uncomfortable began short after.
I was trying to play it cool, laying some jokes (something that I tend to do when nervous) and just acting natural, as if Ireri was a friend. However after a while, Pancho started going some VERY uncomfortable comments, such as:
1. "Ireri, why don't you have sex with Victor.. he needs it"
(I reacted with laughter... relax Victor, is only a joke)
2. "Victor, what you don't know is that Ireri is still in love with you!"
(I didn't reacted at all... I just froze... from all the jokes this was a little bit out of the hedge)
Lots of jokes and counter jokes were cast, but the environment was getting dense... I felt very sad because at some level I hoped that the friendship with Ireri could work... but apparently it can't, not when those kind of jokes are told and much less when those jokes might carry some truth (as jokes usually do). After a while I just ignored Pancho, and Blanco had already arrived, so the whole "ignore Pancho" was easier, so I tried to talk to Ireri.
I told her that I really wanted to be her friend (silly me) to which she immediately reply: "well, I really don't want to be yours"... Now I had had it... the environment was not only dense, nos it was crushing me down. I felt very bad 'coz of this, not because she told me "I don't"... but because I felt into the exact same idiotic behavior... trust Ireri, trust her enough to open myself againg a little bit and offer her my friendship.
I spent the next twenty minutes ignoring her and trying to forget the embarrassing moment. When I left I just said good bye and drive away. After a couple of minutes I received a call from Ireri... she told me she was sorry and she wanted to talk to me. I told her "whatever, I am bored with you 15-year-old attitude" and "am buzy, called me back".
What should I do if she calls me? Do I give her an opportunity or don't?
Help me please... for real.

5 Comments:
At 9:07 PM,
na said…
En mi muy humilde opinion... pienso que si deberias de darle una oportunidad a Ireri. Aunque lo niegues, en el fondo, la sigues queriendo de no ser asi no hubieras puesto de tu parte para seguir contando con su amistad. Ademas... ya olvidaste?? Como fueron las cosas?? Sucedio algo muy similar si no me equivoco.. ( SABES A QUE ME REFIERO!! )
Poniendome en el lugar de ella, la entiendo, es muy dificil estar cerca de la persona que quieres y mas si tienes en mente que tiene a otra persona.
Luego platicamos...
ooox
At 11:35 AM,
Anonymous said…
Hi Victor.
Well I think that maybe after the comments "she's still in love with you" and "I want to be your friend" she probably meant I don't want to be your friend because I want to be your girlfriend again!!! The same thing happennd to me, but my exboyf did get it and now we've worked it out.
Well if she wants to explain herself you should listen to her.
I think that everybody deserves a second chance.
*Pris
At 12:40 PM,
Anonymous said…
Pris has a point.....but then again like i had told hector before, girls are bitches (yes including me sometimes but i admit to it)! and she could just be wanting to feed her ego by proving to herself that she can do with you as she wishes.Or,she may of just called to apologize for being such an ass and if that is the case, have her apologize, see how sincere she is and play it by ear. you sould be able to decide on that second chance by her honesty.
*Mishka*
At 2:18 PM,
hector said…
Shame of a brother:
Victor!... Wake up!... Please... The way you wrote things down, it's like you are leaving room out there for a chance. Remember how things were, over and over. And think about the girl you are with now, who is very very cool. Loves you, and actually treats you nicely.
Yes... do talk to her, let her talk and problably release a bunch of ideas she may have to say, for her sake. Do so in a neutral place though. And stand your ground.
Whatever... I woudn't support, and I am sorry, a second chance in this situation. And you know it.
At 3:43 PM,
Artax said…
Thank you all... (and hello Pris ^-^)
Well, I dunno if what I did was the best or not, but she called me yesterday and I did talk to her, she told me that she regretted what she have done and asked me if I was in love with Mariel...
I told her: "Sorry about that, but you should take responsibility for what you've done, am sorry you regret things now, but I am now with Mariel and I AM in love with her (...) I understand if you don't want to be friends, specially if you still have feeling towards me, so I'll give you space"
I hope it was all for the best...
PD: she DID apologize for acting like she did.
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