Life changing Saturday... (1)
Why Saturday changed me? Well, it was a slow all-day process, but there were to main events that really got me thinking: “Mariel’s kiss session in the car”, and the “Pancho’s room” event.
First whit the beginning. Saturday night I had really good, pleasant and tasty “making out” with Mariel in my car just before her curfew. It is really distressing for me this kind of situations… I mean, I love them and they are great, but I really have to concentrate in not “trespassing the line” with her. I had a little trouble with her once that I tried doing something new (nothing illegal, she is a minor… just second base) because she told me that she felt we were going too fast. I really really really understood that and respected it, but just the other day I felt she was a little more daring, you know? She didn’t do anything, but the way she kissed me, the way she held me… I really thought she was giving me a “go”… but I didn’t do anything I just linger in first base. I was too afraid that if I tried second base again she would feel the same that the last time.
I mean, you girls please give a hand with this… please! How do I know when it is time to go for it? How do I know Mariel wants me to go for it?… a clue, anything… please. It really scares me… ‘coz some people have told me that girls get bored if we guys aren’t daring enough, but how do I know when it’s time to be daring and when it’s time to let things go smoothly and slowly?
I am confused… very.
(second life changing event will be done in a second post… I really want you retro on this, so I don’t want to mix subjects)
12 Comments:
At 8:41 AM,
Sergio said…
My take on it is just keep trying and make jokes to change the subject when they bring it up. Eventually they get tired of stopping your hand.
Then again, I have an incredibly long line of failed relationships, so I would take my opinion with a brick of salt.
At 9:01 AM,
Anonymous said…
Was it a while ago that you tried and had no luck? if it was then it might be safe to try it again if she shows signs of daring courage but please, please, PLEASE dont go straight for the breast grabbin! if you think that she is giving you the 'go' take it slow, i dont know about the rest of the gals out there, but i like slow kisses where i dont have to fear getting swallowed or choked with a tongue. *hint* go for the neck with slight pecks or the area around the ear, if she likes it go back to the lips and then try again a little further work your way in there, once she is all worked up, its hard to say no.
*Mishka*
At 10:11 AM,
Artax said…
wow... thank you a lot!!! good advice Mishka.
Well, the first time happened like a month ago.
Ok ok ok... so no breast grabbing, how about the "rear", is it allowed or also out of boundaries?
At 10:53 AM,
Anonymous said…
Rear grabbing......depends, what kind of rear grabbing are you talking about. its rather a touchy subject here because that is hitting more on to "3rd base" unless its over the clothes....not much fun. one way to see if she is "ok"with it, see how she reacts when if both standing, and you kiss her put a hand in her back jean pocket,or when walking (to keep her close) if she really throws that idea out, then you have a problem and ass grabbin is really out of the question. if she is ok with it, eventually add the second hand and so on. like i said before, you gotta work your way in there and make her feel comfortable and used to the idea of your hands being there. you cant just surprise her and throw her off guard. a girl likes to be in control (even if she doesnt show it) and suddenly surprising her like that will more than likely get you a rejection.
*Mishka*
At 1:49 PM,
hector said…
Wow!!!... Mishka, your first post was highly educational, and your second... Wow!!... Thanks, thanks!... He he he. I will now start writing on those white pages of that book.
It's a tricky topic, mostly if oyu have dealt with girls with a lot of initiative before, and then you find your self having to take the lead.
Again... I can't thank you enough. And sergio, I hope you are reading all this!... He he he.
At 2:17 PM,
Artax said…
WOW!!!...
Very helpfull indeed... thank you so much. My brother is right... now that I have to take the lead am clueless.
Ok ok.. now that I (sort of) understand the mechanics of second base... when it is time to move on to the next? Or once we go to second base: is it allowed to return there freely or I have to play the same tricks over and over again?
At 2:57 PM,
Anonymous said…
you are very welcome and Sad to say, you MAY have to play like this for a couple of times because she can always jump back to 1st with no warning.....in fact, consider this your warning so beware, but is you play it right it shouldnt take more than 2 or 3 times after that its ok to go back and forth. Man, im just letting it all out, good thing im going home otherwise, i would tell it all out...no more for today!
*Mishka*
At 3:47 PM,
Sergio said…
Dude, it just occurred to me... Does Mariel know about this blog? Has she read it? If so, is she ok with your asking nameless, faceless strangers the world over for advice on your sex life?
That would be kind of funny =)
At 7:12 PM,
hector said…
Wow... Tienes un punto. O_o
At 7:53 PM,
Artax said…
He he he.. she is aware of the existence of this blog, but she doesn't read it ^_^
This is very, very educational... thank you all for you comments. Mishka you should pursue a career as a "Doctor Love" or write a book.
At 6:01 PM,
Guillermo said…
Wow, really educational.
At 5:42 AM,
Angie said…
Gosh, if I had known all this a long time ago!
Mishka...we need to talk! You need to teach me these rules!!
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