~ Sueños y Susurros ~ victor padilla

Tuesday, December 07, 2004

She is with a friend...

Ok ok ok… I am in the verge of freaking out and I need your help to cool off….

First some background... my last girlfriend left me for a “friend” of hers... she was hanging out with him for a couple of weeks before she left me. I knew about it, but I tried to stay calmed and put jelousy a side. Well, the whole “understandind, caring boyfriend” shit didn’t worked for me. Women are strange creatures.

Yesteday I called Mariel to her house and her mother told she was sleeping over with her cousin Claudia. I tried to give her a call to her cellphone but there was no answer so I called her to her cousin’s house ( I really wanted to call her. I have just had a fight with my brother and I needed to talk to someone). Claudia answered the phone and told me that Mariel have gone out, that if I wanted I could give her a call to her cellphone, so I told her that her cellphone apparently wasn’t working... she freaked out... she told me that Mariel have promised her that she was going to have her cellphone on all the time, that Mariel was out with a friend... this guy called her before, and Mariel asked Claudia if she could go out with him... this dude picked her up and all. I told Claudia that there must be a perfectly good explenation for all this... that she should be afraid and then asked her to said Mariel that I called.

Later I tried to call Mariel... it was one of those times in which the phone rang a couple of times and then “tutututututu” like if the other person has just hang up. The second time I called it just rang once and then “tutututututu”.

I send her a message which she reply until midnight saying “Hi, did you called?”

I am scared... i am furious for feeling like this... i don’t know what to feel or to do.

ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(sorry for the damn spelling...)

12 Comments:

  • At 8:39 AM, Blogger hector said…

    fuck

     
  • At 8:44 AM, Blogger Sergio said…

    Um, dude... She's not your girlfriend anymore. Stop worrying about her. Let her do with her life as she pleases. If she does not ask for your help, don't offer it.

    When we're in a relationship with someone, it's hard to believe that they survived all the years leading up to that point without us, but they did. And after the relationship, they will, too (unless they don't, but you catch my drift).

    She was probably having a good time and just didn't want to answer the phone.

     
  • At 8:44 AM, Blogger hector said…

    I wouldn't have freaked out if it wasn't for the "he picking her up" bit. And she not answering the phone, getting the "tututututu" and all... And a "did you called?"... Of course you did.

    I don't like the way it sounds either, at all, that the cousin was concerned, etc. Doesn't sound right.

    But before freaking out, you two should have a talk. And ask her abour it. She is allowed to have friends after all. And even if us guys have hard times looking at girls just as friends, girls do can do that terribly easily.

    But you should really let stuff out I think, even the "I felt like you hanged up the phone on me" bit. Talk it through. In a relationship that kind of thing is the one that ends up messing things up the most. Clear facts, clear game, and we are all happy.

    Maybe it was just an innocent talk with a friend, he needed someone to talk to. And he was in such sorrow that she couldn't afford picking up the phone while he was crying his eyes out... I mean... Could be right?.

    Just talk with her.

     
  • At 8:54 AM, Blogger Sergio said…

    Oh, shit, this is your current girlfriend we're talking about. Sorry dude. I thought you were talking about your ex.

    This being the case... I think you should go nuclear on her ass. Ask her to explain what the fuck went on. Only, do so in a calm way. No use getting all worked up about something that may have a perfectly innocent explanation.

     
  • At 8:55 AM, Blogger hector said…

    Totally agree with Sergio.

     
  • At 8:59 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Ouch.... that is a problem, you say she would answer and hang up.... that is not good. dont want to make you feel bad or anything, but the whole, answer and hang up is never good. have you talked to her since??

    Mishka

     
  • At 9:03 AM, Blogger hector said…

    He he he...
    Fuck as in "damn" by the way... Not as an advice...
    Although that can distract you too... He he he.

    Get serious again Hector. Yes... the phone thing is the one I don't like. To talk it up, clear things up. You don't want to look super jelous or anything, but you deserve a good explanation I believe.

     
  • At 9:06 AM, Blogger Sergio said…

    Yeah, don't just let it slip.

    Have you talked to her since?

     
  • At 9:08 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You do deserve an explanation specially if her cousin didnt even know what was going on...why hide? agree with sergio too!

    Mishka

     
  • At 10:47 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Thank you guys... I will talk to her... and no.. I haven't talk to her ever since... I do want to talk to her to figure things out. I've reading this book "El arte del Amor" all morning and it really has help me.

    damn... wish me luck guys...

    Artax

     
  • At 11:19 AM, Blogger Shadow Walker said…

    Don't worry buddy, you just talk to her.. cold headed. Try to get what she has to say, and read "between lines"... that's something very important!

    Also it'd be good to go with an attitude of total listening and no... uhm... forgot the word... "prejuzgado cosas".. hehe

     
  • At 2:50 PM, Blogger Angie said…

    Artax, i'll second the "go nuclear" just because last boyfriend did the same thing to me. he was going out with a friend of mine at the same time.

    She definitely owes you an explanation 'cause it does sound like she's hidin' somethin'...

    I hope it's nothing...I hope it's nothing...I hope it's nothing...

     

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