The naked truth...
Well guys, thank you all for your concern, your support and all the good advices. This is how the story goes:
When I arrived to pick her up at her cousin's house she was looking quite good (I hate when that happens ‘coz it makes the whole discussion thingy a little harder for me... I bet she did it on purpose). She asked me that what I wanted to talk to her about, and as soon as we arrived to some place nice and quite I told her everything... how yesterday wasn’t a good day for me and all that. She later explained me that her cousin didn’t told me the whole truth... that she did go out but not only with a friend, but with a whole gang (the friends of her best girl friend). And she told me that she was sorry for everything, that she didn’t hung up on me, that probably her cellphone isn’t working well, etc...
Later that night, while we were heading back to her place she asked me out of the blue:
Mariel: “listen Victor, if you’d like a girl that has a boyfriend, what would you do”
Victor: “errr... I don’t like where this is going”
Then she told me the WHOLE truth... a guy did pick her up (only him) and took her with the rest of the gang... this dude apparently is after her... he gave her a rose and all. I told her she HAS to put a stop to all of this... she knows about my previuos experience, and I told her that I wasn’t going to just sit back and play it cool this time. She told me that she was afraid that once she talk to this guys, he wont be his friend any...
... I told her that if that was the case, then he was never his friend... she agreed.
I didn’t like the fact that she waited that long to tell me the whole truth... but I liked the way she reacted, very understanding and all, and apparently she is willing to do the right thing.
Now... I hope things end up good... or else I think I’ll have to open a can of “chinga tu madre”.
What do you thing??? What should I do next??? Girls... some advice about the women psique would be nice...
Thank you all...
When I arrived to pick her up at her cousin's house she was looking quite good (I hate when that happens ‘coz it makes the whole discussion thingy a little harder for me... I bet she did it on purpose). She asked me that what I wanted to talk to her about, and as soon as we arrived to some place nice and quite I told her everything... how yesterday wasn’t a good day for me and all that. She later explained me that her cousin didn’t told me the whole truth... that she did go out but not only with a friend, but with a whole gang (the friends of her best girl friend). And she told me that she was sorry for everything, that she didn’t hung up on me, that probably her cellphone isn’t working well, etc...
Later that night, while we were heading back to her place she asked me out of the blue:
Mariel: “listen Victor, if you’d like a girl that has a boyfriend, what would you do”
Victor: “errr... I don’t like where this is going”
Then she told me the WHOLE truth... a guy did pick her up (only him) and took her with the rest of the gang... this dude apparently is after her... he gave her a rose and all. I told her she HAS to put a stop to all of this... she knows about my previuos experience, and I told her that I wasn’t going to just sit back and play it cool this time. She told me that she was afraid that once she talk to this guys, he wont be his friend any...
... I told her that if that was the case, then he was never his friend... she agreed.
I didn’t like the fact that she waited that long to tell me the whole truth... but I liked the way she reacted, very understanding and all, and apparently she is willing to do the right thing.
Now... I hope things end up good... or else I think I’ll have to open a can of “chinga tu madre”.
What do you thing??? What should I do next??? Girls... some advice about the women psique would be nice...
Thank you all...
4 Comments:
At 7:21 AM,
hector said…
At least she was honest and open with you. Let's see which followthrough she gives to the talk you guys had. The way she handles that "friend dude", etc.
At 11:31 AM,
Shadow Walker said…
Agree with that, at the end she told you the truth.. maybe before that she was just "scared" of what your reaction could be...
Now, you can do nothing but wait and see what she does..
...or, if you don't wanna play it cool as last time, you know we can always beat the shit out of that guy!
At 11:31 AM,
Angie said…
Yeah, i also like the fact that she was open at the end...maybe she thought that maybe it would be better to tell you later than to ruin the evening?
Lots of good luck to her...these type of talks are very difficult.
Anyway, when things like this arise in a relationship just make sure there is lots of communication, DIRECT communication between you two. That is always a key in good relationships. Don't assume, don't expect, don't imagine. It's all about communication.
Anyway hopefully everything goes well. I'll be sending good -tipsy- vibes your way! Suerte!
At 9:26 AM,
Artax said…
Yeah, I do hope things end up OK.. my brother did have a point yesterday when he said: "you don't have to make Mariel carry the mistakes Ireri made"... and I think he is right... I have to let her be, and trust her to do the right thing.
So far she hadn't give me any reasons to mistrust her, and I do think that it might be hard for her, maybe this is the first time she ever faces something like this... and she is still an "amateur" in what relatonships concern.
Cross my fingers... and yes blanco... if I ever need to kick some butt I'll give a call... though you know me and that is most unlikely.
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